Randy -

Be patient. I am not sure what else to tell you. Your W is spending a lot of time with you. So, this probably means she is still confused. I would say that it is a real positive though.....trust me.

I have been D since 11/02 and now my XH and I are having sleepovers ( since 1/03) and every couple weeks he does the old - I can never trust you again...don't wait for me...etc. I think it is alien confusion.

Be compassionate, caring - the old you - the one she fell in love with. Avoid R talks for a while...let her initiate. Not a bad idea to be unavailable sometimes too...I am finding that this is helping me. XH is wondering....

Faith