It was a Christian organization, and this was a 'moral' failing. Can't sin and keep your job. (don't get me started)

Should have clarified that, braveheart, you're right.

By contrast, the OW, also married with small children - yet working in a 'secular' corporation - kept her high-level job.

Forget the former things; do not dwell on the past.
See, I am doing a new thing! Is 43:18-19

If it seems slow in coming, wait.
It's on its way. It will come right on time. Hab 2:3

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