Not to be hard on you, but you are putting her on the fence. How do I know? I did the same, yet she still keeps company with Sir Scum. This is not to say that your ex is doing the same. My family is such the picture of happiness. We go to church together. We have dinner every Sunday. We are soccer. We go together and visit family having Easter dinner at her house. Does this sound familiar?
What evil lurks in the sick mind. Who know? I knew from the start that if there was a chance I would just have to go bye bye...something which I have never really done. And it is difficult to break away. Your X never has to make a decision under the circumstances.
When you pull back, she comes to you. When you take the bait, she pulls back. Like a friggin yo yo!!!! Don't take the bait.
