It is amazing what goes through their minds. I just think that they all have a problem with their own insecurities and low self worth, that they pre-empt the breakdown of a R, before they think we will.
My W was always insecure, whenever I went away for work, or whenever we went out together. I don't know why, as I would never give her any reason to be this way.
But, she always kept things to herself (unlike me), and let it fester. This is one of the reasons why I didn't see it coming (breakup). If she told me her concerns, and the things that I was not doing to make her happy, I would have changed it all. I just didn't know.
Hopefully she will be a better communicator in her new R, whoever it may be with.
