Randy -

You are doing fine. Keep DB - be compassionate and cherish her. Listen to what she is saying...validate and have patience. My XH goes through the feelings of he cannot trust me and he needs to move on every couple of weeks ( it seems). I just agree with him ( a bit of backsliding) and then in a couple of days he is back. It is strange. They are experiencing pain...they cannot trust what their heart is feeling or what their eyes are seeing.

Be patient.

Faith