I decided not to with the C. I'm sure the C will say conflict of interest and not tell me anything. When in doubt don't do it right?

The MIL was very supportive. She said that she will not tell the W that I called and I am welcome to call any time to talk to her. I think I will take her up on that and call her regularly from now on. I do need all the support I can get and I do need to connect better with the MIL since I haven't made an effort in doing that in the past. Heck, I need to connect better with my parents as well. Just something I need to do to improve myself. I don't want the MIL to influence the W in anyway that's projected by me. And I know the ILs are pretty hands off and trust their daughter to her judgement. If the MIL has something to say on her own by all means. Otherwise, I am just trying to be a better SIL and be closer to my ILs. It sure doesn't hurt.

Well, looks like the W called 3x tonight. I went out by myself to see Harry Potter and then went to the bookstore. Forgot my cell phone at home. So I accidentally did the "unavailable" thing. :P Probably good for me and she can see that I'm GAL and not sitting there and waiting for her call. I do regret not going to see a comedy instead. The movie is quite dark and gave me unexplained anxieties at times. Uck! BTW Nugget, can't find the book you suggested even though the bookstore supposedly had it. They'll order it for me. Meanwhile I need to read DB and DM. \:\)


M: 31
W: 31
M: 7 T: 8
S:4 D:2
Bomb dropped: too many to count or remember, 12/17/07 last one
S on 9/2/07
W sent off D papers 12/31/07. Me trying to live life and hope she returns one day.

My sitch:
http://tinyurl.com/3dqw93