Thanks,we did talk just for a minute and I dropped it,basicly she said that she didn't know if coming back was what she wanted and I just asked her to tell me if she ever decided that rather than just quit talking to me.I don't understand them at all I know for a fact that i treated her better than any of the other guys she dated afterall I have known her since she was born.I told her I felt she could be happy with us as a family and that she would make the right decsion when the time was right and I was going to drop it until then.She said something about me smothering her but she calls me to do something.Oh well can't live with them and can't live without them.