Havn't been here for awhile, update.

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Hey Ford, long time;

Not sure I would be here w/out you. I seriously think part of what started to turn the tide was some attitude. She was free to choose her own course, but I was free to ignore her BS and call it what it was.

Right before she changed direction, I had written her a letter stating that I had tried everything I could think of to let her know that I still cared and wanted to work on a relationship together, but that at every step along the way she refused to work at it. I told her that I would not continue to hand her my heart only to have her break it. I said that after getting hit in the face so many times I was learning how to duck, and that I would miss her and her friendship, but that I could no longer pay the emotional price of in any way supporting what it was she was doing. I made it clear that I still didn't agree with divorce as the only solution, but that I was done.

I really think her change of heart had less to do with the letter, and more to do with the natural progression of the relationship with OM. Hate to support timetables, but 8-9 months, and it ran out of gas.

Thanks again man, I hope all is well with you and your's.