Left in Cali, I, too, let my marriage be at the bottom of the list. I never meant to, but it was 'easy' to do, that's for sure. I can see now all of the things I have done to get us to where we are (H also did things to put our marriage last, even before the A) but like I tell my H, *I* am willing to own up to those, try to fix them, and move on with our marriage. He, on the other hand, isn't sure what he wants anymore.
lwb, yes that is what really sucks. I own up to my part, but H on the other hand just says it is a little to late. i am sure if OW was not in the picture, it would be a different story.
feeling really down right now, I know H is off work, OW is off work and I am sure they are together right now. I sit here alone with five kids going bonkers. Took the youngest four to get pictures done to give to H for his birthday. Getting four kids to all smile and look at the camera at the same time is harder then wrestling a pig in the mud. I sure hope H appreciates this!
Cali, If I didn't live several hours away from ya I would hop in the mustang right now. BUT by the Time I got to your house you will have sobered up and probably call the cops on me.
husband .
And if I claim to be a wise man, well It surely means that I don't know
