I appreciate your comments. I do want to through up the possibility that my STBXWW is suffering from personality disorders. I thought that such a thing was crazy not to long ago. I don't think it's crazy anymore. I'd like to here your thoughts in the context of possible personality disorders. Many have said that it's a very possible reality and have warned me to seek full custody up to and including supervised visits for WW. As I said before I thought that that was crazy talk. I don't think that anymore.
If your up for it, and I don't know how much of my story you know, I'd like to here your comments in relation to these threads also. Beg your pardon if you've already checked out above posts.
My goal is not to keep the kids away from their mom but to protect them from any further manipulation. There mom insists in conversations with DDs that she has done nothing wrong. As above she spoke with afriend about what has happened. She has said that the affair is the biggest mistake of her life (said that to me also). She didn't think it was wrong to call FOM even though there was supposed to be no contact. I could go on and on but it's in the posts.