I have thread in newcomers and surviving. A search will pull up all kind of nonsense...lol!m I have been all over the place, but I am doing well now so I really don't post much anymore.
The real key to all of this is not to want or expect. I know how hard that can be. Also, you need to give as much space as possible and you definitely spend much more time with your ex than I do. So that is good. But as soon as we want too much, it all crashes. Let her want you.
