Should I ask him to move back home?

[summerd]

Hi Laurel -
I'm wondering.. do you know whether the baby is his? The pregnancy certainly complicates your situation but isn't impossible to overcome.
I've really stopped being concerned about this OW thing because I believe that people do what they want to do. If he wanted to divorce me, he'd be at the courthouse. If this woman wanted to be with my husband, she'd leave hers. None of this has happened.
Our dinner was great. In a tearful revelation he shared how messed up he is and I told him we missed him and wanted him home.
He just cried and we moved to a different subject.
At least he knows he's welcome home. I have no expectations. I will continue the last resort and enjoy my life as I have been doing. Either way - I feel very good about myself!