Just a word of advice for others on this forum: No matter how hard it may seem to implement, do what the Divorce Remedy books and experienced people on this forum say immediately or you will just be prolonging your agony and possibly ending a relationship that could have been saved. If your WAS asks for space, give it to them immediately and stop the calling/begging/pleading/snooping. GAL and get strong because this is the only chance you will have to win them back and make yourself a better person at the same time. Stop trying to control your WAS and work on yourself. I made so many mistakes that I'm lucky I'm not divorced already.
That is truly DB words to live by. Very well put svejk.
“Do you want to be RIGHT or want to be LOVED” “You have to have a life to share a life with someone” “When you stop resisting, you start learning”
