I think most of us struggle with detaching. It is very hard for us to do now that we are emotionally involved in trying to save or R's or trying to cope with the loss of a spouse that is gone for good. I have found a couple of good sites and a great book that are helping me.
“Do you want to be RIGHT or want to be LOVED” “You have to have a life to share a life with someone” “When you stop resisting, you start learning”
