Why is it that when you aren't getting to spend time with WAS you want to spend time and then when you get to spend time you want more and so forth.I think now that I am spending time with XW but she doesn't know what she wants I am more impatient then when we weren't.how do I handle this and how do I tell if she is using me.I would think that if she was she would expect me to pay for everything when we go out as a family but instead she pays sometimes and I pay others.She still just walks into my house and she says she doesn't know what she wants.
