Hitting BW's later. W and I used to meet F's there a lot. Also where she hooked w/ OM. I had stayed away due to giving her space. No more, I like it there and will meet some F's there. Was thinking about going to another hole in the wall, but I only really liked that w/ W, so why go? My promo is a whirlwind! I'm to hire someone next week. Thought it would be a bit slower transition. Nothing like jumping in head first. They have confidence in me, and I have it in myself. I'm finally at a place where I will shape and mold our business to make it bigger and better. Will talk $$ Monday. They typically take care of people elevated to these positions, so doubt there will be any negotiation/disapoointment. Hanging out with Lawyer F (we'll designate her LF) Sat night. She and fiancee are having a shindig. Mentioned that her neighbor's H moved out 6 weeks ago. (eery) Said she will not be there, but I would like her. Said I'm not in a place for an R, but it may be nice to spend time w/ someone in a similafr place. They live on opp side of town (good 45 min drive) but I am free to go and stay where I want now. Nice to reaffirm that I have lots-o-options. LF and I ar3e going to talk D numbers Sunday. My plan is to push division of small stuff with W after LAbor Day over 2 weekends. Then hit her with a solid and fair proposal of division of the big stuff. W won;t like it, too bad. LF will not let me ask for too much or too little, so I know it will be fair. Will file at same time, perhaps have her served at work? Mmmmm, would like to see the look on her face! I am allowed to be angry and take a poke here or there. I really feel in a good place. Definitely detached and accepted. Working w/ W on dividing will be bad, but it is what it is. Gotta do it. So, if I don't die from a bug bite, saw Dr. today about nasty leg thing, I will survive. I will be pissed if some stupid spider cancels my check Sorry I have been neglecting other threads the past couple days. Will do that tomorrow morn/afternoon. We are not alone!
Me 32 WAW 30 D Bomb 7/9 Separated 7/15 Reiterated bomb 8/12 PA 8/21 http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubb...rue#Post1198643
