Ah well, I called the MIL. Had a good chat. She was very supportive. She does mention that she has told the W that she really need to think about the kids and that she should keep the family together. Guess I should make an effort in calling the MIL more often. It's good that the W has not mentioned anything in regards to a D to the MIL. Just said she needs some time to think and sort things out. Although I don't like the fact that the W told the MIL don't expect many presents this xmas. That would be true if we aren't together anymore. I guess the W is quite confused. But I do believe that maybe some time by herself w/o me being around to help out may get her thinking that being by herself ain't so nice. At least talking to the MIL makes me feel quite a bit better. I swear, Dom R I know you mean well and you feel very strongly about this separation thing, but you are seriously killing my PMA big time! :P
M: 31 W: 31 M: 7 T: 8 S:4 D:2 Bomb dropped: too many to count or remember, 12/17/07 last one S on 9/2/07 W sent off D papers 12/31/07. Me trying to live life and hope she returns one day.