[quote=built4speed]so I let her in. In the middle of the tour she stopped and started crying and gave me a huge hug and said she didn't want to be my enemy (we had had a fight on the phone this morning about paying for a school item for D14, which she clearly is responsible to cover, but she was asking if I would cover it. When I said no, a fight ensued). She told me she loved me, but that she needed space that I wouldn't give her (I refused to move out - but she could have) and she had to do the D. I said, well, now you've got space.
She is not as happy as I would have thought after spending so much effort to get us D. -------------------------------------------------
I dont know why I expected this B4..
I have been watching your sitch on the DBB since Feb of '06.. this all sounds so familiar to me for some reason ? Your stbxw is so unstable.. and something ? I really hope she decides at some point she needs.. and I mean NEEDS to see a pdoc...
Not for you.. or anyone else but herself and , obviously, the children. Out of your hands of course....
Question: ( and dont feel like you have to answer it btw...)
If she took efforts to help herself.. and you felt they were sincere and heartfelt.. would you .. could you consider attempting to renew.. change.. whatever you would like to call it.. your R with her ?
