I just wanted to let you know that I was thinking about you, and telling friends what an amazing person you are. I know that you are feeling a loss in your life, but you sound so good and strong; I am sure that you got so much more out of this whole life thing than your W can ever hope to accomplish right now.
I am also hearing the word "closure" often. I think my H is in the same mental place as your W, and won't be detered at all. It really is sad, and I know that they will just have to live it to feel it.
Please let me know if you end up doing the Lindy anywhere in the tri-state area around NYC...I've been cuttin' the rug around home for practice!
