The counselor for the kids says the only issue that messes up the kids is our disagreements after the D. So the D will have little impact. I think she's full of it. That is why this is so hard.
Yeah man, that is a load of crap. You need to find a therapist who reads. The latest studies show the real mess that Divorce creates is practically life-long for the VAST majority of kids who are victims of it. I'm not going to scare you with the details, but it sucks.
It does sound like you're dealing with this well considering how badly you've had it for the last while. I really do hope things go as well as you could have ever hoped from here on out with you and your kids. I'll keep you in my thoughts and prayers.
We can talk ourselves into defeat or we can talk ourselves into victory - we are creatures of our thinking.
3/31/07 - Hit with a brick, leaving the dent there...
