Yesterday I took off work to spend the day with the girls since they were on spring break and we went to a movie. I droped off a bundle of fresh cut flowers at XW house and she called last night to thank me,and then she told me her aunt died and she was trying to find a flight out.I made a few calls and found her a flight so she could call and make reservations,surprisingly she was verynic. She hasn't mentioned coming over to let me know what else she wanted from the house so I could get it boxed up like I asked her about last week.I am going to try this for a few more weeks and see if things improve.Should I ask her to have a talk to see if she is planning on working on R or just keep going?