Originally Posted By: Heimlich
Relax, take the pressure off, have some fun, hope for the best, but be prepared for the worst.


Amen to that! And find some humor in the craziness if you can. I'm finding that helps me a lot, especially when I'm listening to DH with one ear and thinking, "Man, you're nuts!" at the same time. Sometimes I picture little alien antennae sticking up from his head while he's talking.

Originally Posted By: Heimlich
I am a strong person and that's something I had lost over the years.

Still a fat ol' caterpillar, but I'm getting there.


You are! You're going to be great, and your daughters are two lucky little girls to have you for their dad. I'm so glad to hear it's not as scary as you thought it would be.

Take care.


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