Ok, couple things. Almost thought about calling her therapist and see what her opinion is on the separation. I know the therapist. We used to go to her for our pre-marital. Anyhow, after much struggling I decided not to call her. Probably a bad idea right?
So now. The wife is out visiting friends tonight and won't be at the in-laws tonight. Do you guys think it's ok for me to call the MIL and just chat? I just want to make sure that she doesn't think I'm just awful in this entire thing. I haven't exactly been communicative to her over the years. My desire is not to have her influence the W or intervene in this. But I just want her to understand what's going on and what I'm trying to do. Or at least for me to start in the direction of making an effort in actually connecting with her....
M: 31 W: 31 M: 7 T: 8 S:4 D:2 Bomb dropped: too many to count or remember, 12/17/07 last one S on 9/2/07 W sent off D papers 12/31/07. Me trying to live life and hope she returns one day.
