Hi - it sounds like you have your plans all lined up - that's great! It seems like a good plan too. In regard to the lonely bed: the only thing that helped me was sleeping on his side of the bed. When I was on my side I was aware that he wasn't there, when I was on his side it was like a new sleeping experience so I didn't think about him not being there - I don't know, maybe i'm just weird - eventually I ended up sleeping diagonally and was annoyed when he came back. How's that for detaching!!

I know this sucks, and is so difficult, but you are really doing well! Better than most...

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Me: 34
H: 39
M: 7 yrs
H A 12/05-8/07

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