How many details of OP did you get, want, need?

[ediemarie]

Hey Root -
I, like Saffie, HAD to know the details! I asked and asked and my H was very forthcoming with information, for the most part. I left no rock unturned to the point where he was at times hesitant to reveal certain things, but would anyway. I don't fixate on OW at all. I now know everything I want to know about her and as far as I see it, she isn't the issue. The issue is with my H. I do understand though how knowing everything could cause one to fixate on OW. I would not be able to move past the A if I didn't know the details. It sounds like you might really want to know what went on...it's totally a personal decision and there are pros and cons to both sides of the coin.

good luck!
Em