I don't think it is good idea to base your opinion to separate or not, from statistics or research. How many of the people (the 80% number that is being thrown around) even tried to get back together or used DBing techniques or what ever form to try to save their marriage or did they both just blame each other and think the other one should be trying to work it out. Bottom line is. Each needs to do what they think is best for themselves. IMO, if you give your R all you can and you do everything in your power, honestly do everything in your power to try to reconcile or make it work, then there are no regrets. You were not defeated, you did not loose, you were not concord. You were just faced with someone that absolutely did not want to try or be back with you. You move on.
“Do you want to be RIGHT or want to be LOVED” “You have to have a life to share a life with someone” “When you stop resisting, you start learning”
