uhmmm, you are not going to like what I"m going to say, but you might have to go dark on him. He doesn't seem ready to commit again just yet so he's just happy with coming and going. Your R with him wasnt healthy to begin with,after the D, he had his cake and ate it too (sex w/u while seeing others)
He needs to respect you. I know things are double hard 'cause your are prego and want the father around, but at the cost of your sanity and self steem?
You must make plans as if you will be single, you must find your independence again. Please see a C to help you deal with anxiety, limbo is a horrible place to be, I know, I was there for 8 mths and it started showing in unhealthy ways and my self steem took a deep deep plunge.
Take care of yourself and dont' count on him for much, trust me.
Be not afraid...I will repay you for the years the locusts have eaten Joel2
30something 2kids survivor of S, MLC, A, D I have peace in my heart, at last.
