P.S. Gwyn, just to be clear. Whatever you are bringing to the issues, it is clear H is bringing PLENTY himself. I wasn't in any way trying to suggest things were YOUR problem. NOT AT ALL. You are doing SO MUCH already to really try to work on things.
The way I see it, the issues are either a JOINT problem to be addressed as PARTNERS, or it will be HIS problem because you'll be out of there.
