I agree, that H needs C, he did go for awhile, then proclaimed himself well! =========== Yup, I' would've been wary of that, specially after a suicide attempt, it takes a long time to get well again.
I know it will be much harder for us to trust our Hs this time around, as my C told my H "you need to be an open book for your W for a very long time" because being burned 2x does leave its mark, don't settle for less, give him time but dont' be walking on eggshells. Keep GAL however you do it.
Be not afraid...I will repay you for the years the locusts have eaten Joel2
30something 2kids survivor of S, MLC, A, D I have peace in my heart, at last.