He's told me to have an A if I need more than what he's given me and then he'll do what he needs to do. I asked him, would you leave if I did? Answer: Dunno, might, might not.
Classic avoidance - nothing less
I think the first thing you need to do is get into counselling - not that it will make him tell the truth anymore than he is now but it will allow YOU to open up and bring this issues out into the open and have someone there to mediate the situation. Tell him counselling is a condition of staying together. If he cares about you as much as he says he does, he will do this for YOU and for your R
Heywyre
M - 57 H - 65 1st A-bomb - Nov 27/02 2nd A-bomb - Dec 13/06 together 21 years *************************** Insanity is doing something over and over and expecting different results (Albert Einstein)
