PATIENCE!!! PATIENCE!!! like yoyo said. If you can stay relaxed and act like you are enjoying having her around no R talks for awile I would say. She is in to much turmoil for a while. But you are her anchor and you are gaining. Keep up the positive attitude. It is tough and a long way to go. Keep acting like you are GAL even though I know its hard not being able to get out. I can relate about garages my pick up has been out of the shop for 1 month and half and they just now figured it out. It has been frustrating.
Take your time and a few deep breaths and have Patience knowing you are gaining..... Have a good day