You both sound like you are very good fathers which is nice to see. Why do the WAS seemed so f'ed up in the heads even where their children are concerned.
My H stopped up last night to bring some things up. He is going to take the kids on every other weekend but I asked him on his off weekends about spending a few hours on a Sat or Sun with his kids so that they can see him. I still can't believe his response to me. He is too busy, he has to much to do, if he is up in my area then maybe he will think about. wtf? They are his kids and he doesn't want to spend any extra time with them. He said well if you want me to do that then we will adjust the child support amount. For a few extra hours. He is a real a-hole that he can devote his time to everything else and OW but his kids are a burden to him???? Me and the kids will be way better off without him. This is the same attitude of his that pushed me away so far from him that I didn't know how to get back.
Me: 41 H: 39 D: 6 S: 4 M-14 T-16 first bomb: 5-12-07 (M dead doesn't really want to work things out.) second bomb: 6-4-2007 (found note he wrote about wanting desperately to be with OW and would have to give up everything) Kelley
