Gwyn I went back to the sex and he said that most wives would love the fact that they wouldn't be bothered by sex. Is that true? Am I different in this aspect
The first thing I will suggest is that you get over the idea most women don't like sex. If you don't reduce that attitude/belief, that will make you abnormal in the back of your mind.
I had to do stop thinking most women don't like sex just for my mental health. If it were true, most women don't like sex, then I was fighting a losing battle w/o many options.
What I have come to the conclusion, many women don’t like sex as often as most men. Some women like sex but not necessarily the way the H prefers carry out the foreplay and while F'ing his W. The W wants something different.
Some women love sex, but not with their H. Some women like sex with a charismatic man or a man that has a certain quality.
So, for your sake, don't buy into the idea, most women don't like sex. Many more women would like sex if certain conditions were present.
The most important reason to dump the idea women don’t like sex is you are not a composite of most women. You like sex and that is a reality.
Most guys like new cars, sorry I don't. Should I buy a new car? I have the cash! My old one needs some work. It is still not a good enough reason for me to buy a new car.
BTW my wife/BB tells me most women don't like sex but if I am standoffish long enough, she initiates small contact gestures that signal hug/love me, and then some fair/poor sex might follow.
I mentioned to him that I thought men wanted sex and he said that's probably true, but he didn't need sex. He told me that he was so over this and he wasn't going to talk about it anymore. So, I've laid it out for him and we got nowhere. Now what?
Talking about "most men/women" muddies the water. Talk about you and him.
He doesn't need sex????? He better bottle that and sell it to guys with LD W's.
While it can be true, some men don't need or want sex, most masturbate. Here are some web sites.
Just because some people don’t like sex, that does not mean your H is right or entitled to not have sex with you. When and how sex happens is another problem that will have to be worked out if he continues a sexual R with you.
we got nowhere. Now what Welcome to the club, that is a common occurrence. The dance of life and M is a many act play. Stick around; this is going to take a while.
