He gets very offended when I'm direct and takes it as accusations
Sure sounds familiar - my H says/said the same thing dozens of times - to me that is guilt talking. If you haven't done anything wrong, why would you get offended?
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He tells me that he desires me, but doesn't need sex. What the heck does that mean?
I don't know what it means to you, but when my H said it to me, I instantly thought "then he must be getting it somewhere else" and he was - either through OW, MB or whatever. Your H is too young to not want sex at all, something either in his life or to do with his health is wrong
Heywyre
M - 57 H - 65 1st A-bomb - Nov 27/02 2nd A-bomb - Dec 13/06 together 21 years *************************** Insanity is doing something over and over and expecting different results (Albert Einstein)
