I had a great time to. Thanks for sticking me in a jeep on a mountain road with a woman who is TERRIFIED, of driving on a road with anything resembling a view. LOL.
I pulled this out of corri's thread.
Me saying "I'll be happy to join in" means "I'll be happy to join in."
This is something I want to do, for a variety of reasons. One, the guy who had been mentoring me for ahwile, blackfoot, is just too busy himself to take on a project as demanding as me.
Yep Im really busy. The real reason though, is you dont really need a mentor anymore. You have the tools now, the issues you are working on... the issues anybody is working on, is for them to make decisions on. You have issues with IL, Careers, children, they all include boundaries, but the only thing I ever intended to come here and talk about was attraction. You have that, you have the tools to implement boundaries, and work on compromises, and define who you are, you just have to continue working on depending on yourself. Its lonely being the king.
You dont need me, you dont need Corri, though Im happy to, and enjoy listening to what is going on in your life. Believe in yourself, use your SEC when neccessary. You got it.
The next step in trusting in yourself is feeling.... I dont care what he thinks. Ill definitely listen, I might learn, but I know whats going on inside me best.
Cant wait for the next time. Got my new camera. :-P still p.o.ed that I lost all those shots of the lightning storm.
I guess my main question is, should I just let the fantasy go, enjoy the sensations, and if I don't O, don't worry about it? I vote for flipping her, and using her how you want too.
