Trying to be positive - with hope

[limbo]

Thank you Cat,

I agree, that H needs C, he did go for awhile, then proclaimed himself well!
When this blew up again last week, he agreed that he made a mistake in ending it so soon, and is going to go back.
I think that he is really beginning to understand what he has done, and what needs to be done.
Before he had no intrest in us doing any kind of C, but when I sent him info on the retrouville weekend he agreed right away, with no pushing or anything from me, so I was really suprised.
I hope that I am not getting my hopes up to much, but I do feel better.
You are right about handling things, this time round I have barely shed a tear, and for some reason just doesn't way on me in the same way.