Really, what choice do we have? Let's take your H at his word and he's willing to do this. If you're closed off, you risk driving him away. On the flip side, if your H is just pretending and is lying, that says more about him than about you. It'll hurt -- a lot -- but being open means we can let in a lot of love. That seems worth the risk.
BD
My latest
Me: 36 W: 35 2 D: 9 and 5 T: 16 years M: 12 10/4/06: Bomb 10/5/06: Ended A 4/22/07: ILYBNILWY