Everything has been quiet on around the house recently. My W is still moving out in less then two weeks with both of my girls. It will be lonely in this house without their laughter and play filling it up.
I met with my L on Wednesday and my L was not happy with me. I guess what it boils down to is that I am to nice. I was trying to work with my W on settling outside the L's, but by doing so I could have shot myself in the foot. My L really things I stand the chance at getting my girls 50% of the time - which is awesome. As for the money breakdown my L said there is not a whole lot that she can do, it will just follow how state law breaks it down. With that said I should do alright since my W can make good money if she choose to and that is what the law states. When CS is determined it is based off what I make and what my W could make. So I might not be paying for two households after all.
I have had my DD's the last few nights and will again tonight. We have been hanging out with friends and having fun. There have been some pretty bad storms in our area the last couple of days. Once I got home yesterday I had to clean up the yard for a good 45 minutes. Thankfully my neighbor already brought most of the stuff from my backyard over to my house, otherwise I would have been walking arpund the neighborhood looking for stuff.
I need to work again this weekend but I am hoping that I can get some golfing in this weekend.
As for the interaction between my W and I. There really has not been to much. I still get a few phone calls a day to talk about our girls or the D. She actually took my advice and is seeing all her doctors before she loses my insurance. Her new insurance is basic health so no more clean teeth for her and everything else will cost her an arm and a leg.
Little update about my friend and his sitch. He and his W are still separated. His W seems to be keep separating herself from their life together. She is separating bills, changed the kids school, etc..... My friend is still really hopeful and seems to be going down a lot of the cheese less tunnels that I went down. So all I am trying to do is support him and give him advice based off of my experience and what I have read. It is up to him what he does with it.
