Just received a voice mail from W this morning. We have had little contact since she moved out in June and the last I heard from her was in an email asking me for 1/2 of the filing fee. When I refused she sent me a response which was very accusatory and vindictive. I did not respond to it.
So, in the voicemail she was crying and told me that she doesn't see how she could ever get over being angry with me, and that I shouldn't call her back. This was the first sign of her dealing with her emotions that she has expressed to me since she walked out. I have been doing 180 and letting her call the shots for contact etc. Could this be a sign that she is possibly looking for a way in her mind to work things out, or should I just let it ride? I want to email her with info about Retrouvaille and let her know that I have been going back to church and seeing a therapist, though I am afraid she may not take too well to it. Any thought son this? Could her anger/emotion be a positive sign in coming to terms with her emotions?
