Breaks my heart to hear about your son. Not sure what's going to happen as I move into my new place, but I'll let you know if I think of anything that can help as my girls adjust.
I will tell you that my parents D'ed when I was 3ish. I have no idea what happened, nor do I want to and have never asked how I behaved, but I turned out alright. Your son will to.
BD
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Me: 36 W: 35 2 D: 9 and 5 T: 16 years M: 12 10/4/06: Bomb 10/5/06: Ended A 4/22/07: ILYBNILWY