Well, our night ended by both of us getting angry with each other. W came home and had dinner and said she didnt ate any of the food I cooked since she didnt wanted me to tell her about eating it. I had written her an email asking if she was gonna have dinner with D and I and the reason being I didnt had enough shrimp to cook (I had to buy some more but I didnt tell her that). So I said she can have a little and if she wants to she can make a salad. This pissed her off and she didnt eat the dinner that was cooked.

W said well I didnt ate YOUR food and I WONT eat YOUR any of your grocery. So I said, Oh God, what's going on now? W didnt answered. I took my wallet and keys and went for a little drive, by the time I returned (10 mins)D was already in bed. So I put on a happy face and started to apply for some jobs in IL and CA.

Later, W came out while I was watching tv and asked if I had gotten my sleeping stuff. I said no and she brought them to me and said you dont have to sleep on the couch. Then, I said why all of a sudden you are so pissed. This ticked W off and then I brought up the issue with her buying a webcam and I told her I saw all her online pics already and they are beautiful but it seems the next step will be camcorder. Since she is already taking pics from cam phone, webcam, next will be camcorder.

Then W said that OM is a much better man than I am. I told her how in the world OM will be better when he is in a dead end job, dont give a damn about furthering his education and career. I told her OM can never measure up to me. I told her it seems that you will be footing all of OM's bills due to being so arrogant.

I told W that the only reason why wants a D is because she is selfish and dont have an concrete reason for doing so. W cannot give me no reason for a D other than she wants to be alone. I told her it cost me 3 gran to move her to this state and she has not paid a penny towards that credit card bill. Now, she will be moving out after all I have done for her and she has not paid a cent in our home - what a free ride.

I told her it was so important to argue and the evening discussion should have been D's pre-K and she prefered to argue about food - wtf. No common sense and priorities I see. I even told her when I was in MD I paid for her car insurance and to date is still footing that bill.

W said I didnt do anything for her. I told her I am the primary owner of her car and my signature is the primary on the car loan papers. If I didnt do anything for her, my name would have not appeared. I told her that OM could not even get his W a car since he dont want her to be going place - what a mean person this is and this is the OM she wants to be with. A proven cheater and dont give a damn about his W and family - wtf.

I ended my preaching by saying she smells so great since she had recently took a shower and I went to bed. W said I smelled like s***. I told her that's what made both of us! Then I turned off the lamp.

This morning, I told her I was sorry I got upset with her and I didnt see a reason for us to quarell. W said she will see about getting her own car insurance and I told her good luck. It doesnt mean I will drop her car off mine, it means she will be quoted with a higher premium than what I am currently paying for 2 cars.

W saw how loving our D was with me prior to my taking D to daycare. I didnt say anything except enjoyed the precious moment as to I am beginning to count the days down.

Another note, W said the cops told her that I will tell her anything so she can stay with me. I told her who are they to be telling her this bunch of BS when if anyone of them were in my shoe would have been doing the same things to save their M. Dont call the cops for any reason!

Positive attitude J!!!

See the W, Listen to the W, but dont Speak back to the W. Bridle your tongue...