I know this is not DB, and I don't know how old you are. I suspect it is under 50. You probably have at least 30 more years that you would like to be sexually active. There are some decent reasons for divorce. The lack of a sex life is one of them. Maybe in the 18th century women didn't want sex, but there sure were a lot of children around, so I suspect that wasn't true even then when women were likely to die in childbirth. If he won't cooperate with you and try to fix what's broken, I would encourage you to look elsewhere to fulfill your needs.