Thank you for the article, perhaps it is best if I go back to counseling again. Interesting enough, it explains why she feels I have no reason to be unhappy about anything except what I did.
I have taken full responsibility for my actions and the current and eventual consequences that part is good. I have also in the past acknowledged the character flaws with the OW. She was mad at me when I suggested I was going to go back to counseling saying it was all about me.
I guess I should go back again at least to find out a good way to go about this. Thank you for your thoughts and information.
Married:10 years D final 8/28/08 10 minutes is all it took Life goes on and DB was no small part in growing from the Divorce!