no matter what the sich, desire is the key. My sister had serious cervical cancer and had to have a hysterectomy and cervical radiation. She has been seriously frustrated because sex is painful for her now but her desire for sex, as always, is very high. So, she told me that the other night she just pushed through the barrier and made the pain part of the experience and she said the sex ended up being red hot in a S&M pain mixed with pleasure kind of way.
AC, Mojo wasnt asking how you felt or thought about this. She was giving you important information. So, dont hold your breath waiting for it, just read it. Other women here, have mentioned having sex even when it hurts, often not telling their H's, because he freaks out about it. I have a great story about this one time when I got stung right on the underside of my Johnson- by a wasp, while sleeping. Horrible way to wake up. *scream* x insisted on examing for damage. Mr. Willy was so frighteningly swollen and mishapen, we had to make sure he still worked. excruciating pain before, and after the sex. The sex was great. made the pain go away. who knew?
