I have been, and she refuses to go. At first she wanted to work it out, then didn't, then did, then didn't. Basically that is where it stands. I understand and appreciate the support, I know she needs a lot of time and has to do things at her own pace. I just wondered if anybody had any like experiences or was going through the same thing. However I appreciate all points of view and your input.
Like you folks, at first very sad, now very angry at times, I can tell by how she deals with things and a very negative attitude in general. I guess I just wish she was happy and comfortable with whatever she decided. Problem is one minute she seems fine, the next very irritated.
Married:10 years D final 8/28/08 10 minutes is all it took Life goes on and DB was no small part in growing from the Divorce!