You are making a lot of sense Hope. His efforts and remorse , or lack thereof, at this point, are big indicators of a successful reconciliation even after a divorce. You also mentioned that he has 10 other siblings, many of which are also having issues. I remember dating a man with 14 siblings and each and every brother cheated on their wives and each married brother was divorced. It was also a pattern in their large family to go through many affairs and turn a blind eye. There may have been cultural indicators.

I am happy that you have plans to rejoice in your new life. You are obviously a lovely person. You do not need to find a prince, or a soul mate, or a dream man, just a kind and truthful partner. If there is kindness and truth there is always hope.


Me:38 H:39 MLC
M:10 R:23 years
D6 S3
Bomb: Easter, 2007
"Every day may not be good, but there's something good in every day."