While both those statements are true, it does not mean you can't move forward from there.
Actually, for the first time, I think I can move forward. As my innocense was taken, the blinders are off, that's not a bad thing because I now don't take people for their word.
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affairs, had a secret cell phone, was gambling, etc etc.
My IC is of the same opinion. Because of this I asked these questions of my H, straight and direct last night. I asked him if he is visiting T&A bars, massage parlors, secret cell phone, red light districts or masterbation and of course an OW. He said no and asked me where the hell do you come up with this stuff? He told me that my mind was getting the best of me and I need to stop dwelling on this stuff. He also asked me if I'm looking for something to help in making a decision?
