Question for Men, please (this is embarassing)

[Heywyre]

The conversation you had with your H is interesting in that I could have taken it almost word for word as to oodles of conversations my H and I have had over the past 6 years but I will tell you this ... and I am not saying the same holds true for your H, but my H in that time frame had two affairs, had a secret cell phone, was gambling, etc etc. You won't believe the stories I could tell you of how we sat there for hours with him telling me what a beautiful woman I was and how lucky he was to have me in his life - blah blah blah. I am not saying your H isn't telling the truth when he tells you what a wonderful person you are, I have heard that hundreds of times too, but what I am saying is it's a cover-up to something much deeper. I am not saying there's even another woman but, unfortunately, I wouldn't be surprised about that either. Nothing surprises me anymore because I have heard every lie under the sun, particularly the closer you get to the core. I hope that isn't the case with you but I am very skeptical that you don't fall into the same statistics as the majority of us on the BB