Signed the papers this morning. 16 1/2 months after the bomb, 16 months of dbing, 16 months of being a great friend, 16 months of being a better person than i ever thought I could be, 16 months of her telling me how proud she was of me and what a great great dad I was...

I guess there is a lot to be proud of here. Being a great dad (which I think I have always been, but now more patient)and going thru these 16 months with little anger and no biiter fights or hating each other is a lot. But did I get what i wanted? Well that would be a big fat NO.

90 days and it is official. The State of MA considers us divorced. So the papers will say it and be filed, but I'll be left missing my best friend, my lover and the only person I ever loved...


M - 43
WAS - 39
3 kids 10, 7 & 4

Bomb - 4/06
She left - 7/06