If I am the one?

[SueS]

Thegoodfight-

Let me tell you....I am not here to judge you or what you did. We know that you're hurting too. I'm....as cadesmom put it....a "victim" of a past PA & of a current EA/PA. I still love my H very much. I will tell you though, that after the initial shock, hurt, sadness....I was very, very angry. I knew I hadn't been the perfect wife and I'd made mistakes, but I was mad as hell that he'd broken our vows and let another person come into our lives.

I agree with cadesmom that if she let you come back, that's a good thing. Have you gone to a C yourself? Maybe if she sees that you're going it will help. At least a pro-marriage C would give you some words of wisdom to help you.

I wish I had the answers for you. That's what we all wish is that someone had the right answers for all of our unique situations. We'll be here for you though.

SueS